尊重愛你的人 Respect those who love you
- 成長日記
- 3月5日
- 讀畢需時 1 分鐘
有時候，總是太在意一些言語
或許跟成長歷程被否定式長大有關
有人跟我說，
「妳總是放大5%的惡言，卻忽略了95％的肯定」
突然之間醒悟了很多事情！
習慣每天都自我反省的自己
只要反省錯事就好
做錯就道歉
但被污衊的話
為什麼我還要反省自己是不是誤會別人
反而把時間花在不值得的人身上
相信別人所謂的「妳只是運氣很好」
這樣對於一直說「妳很棒」的人
其實反而是一種失禮
決定學習放大90％的善意，縮小10％的惡言
Sometimes, we always care too much about some words.
This may have something to do with long-term denial.
When someone told me "You always magnify the 5% of bad things and ignore the 95% of good things", I suddenly realized a lot of things!
I am used to reflecting on myself every day, but in fact, what I need to reflect on are just the mistakes I made in the past.
If you find you have done something wrong, apologize and work to improve.
As for being maliciously slandered, don't reflect on other people's thoughts. For those who don't deserve it, it's a pure waste of time.
Believing what others say, "Everything you have is just luck," is actually disrespectful to those who always say, "You are great."
Decided to learn to magnify 90% of kindness and reduce 10% of malice.
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